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Sex aids or sex toys devices

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Sex aids or sex toys devices made to vary or enhance pleasure during sexual activity. They are used primarily on the genitals or around the genitals, but some can be used on other parts of the body as well. People use them when they are on their own or with partners. On the whole, people who use sex aids do not use them every single time they engage in sex nor do they always use the same aid on each occasion.

The list of sex aids is a long one. They are usually sold in special erotica shops or through mail order catalogues. Some of the more common ones include the following:

toy_01.jpg (4599 bytes)Vibrators. Vibrators are electrical machines powered by batteries or plugged into electrical outlets. They come in different sizes and shapes; some have variable speed controls to allow the user to personalize the intensity of the stimulation.

The more popular kinds of personal vibrators are battery powered, cylindrical or penis shaped in different diameters and lengths, and sometimes come with attachments for different parts of the body.

The sexual sensations produced by a vibrator can be both intense and rapidly felt. Vibrators must be used gently on sensitive body tissue. Some people use a towel between the skin and the vibrator to cut down on the intensity of the sensation. Using a water-based lubricant can also make a vibrator more comfortable and stimulating.

Vibrators, especially AC-powered models, are never to be used in or with water, and battery powered models may overheat if used for extended periods of time.

Ben Wa Balls. This device, which originated in the orient, consists of a set of two metal balls. One is solid and is placed in the vagina near the cervix; the other one is partially filled with mercury and is also placed in the vagina, near the first one. Any movement causes the mercury filled ball to hit the deeper one, spreading vibrations through the vaginal area. Women primarily use them on their own, but they can also be incorporated into sexual activity with a partner.

Cock Rings. A cock ring is a metal, leather, or rubber ring-shaped device, usually from 1 1/2 to 2 inches in diameter. The testicles and the erect penis are slipped through the ring, which fits tightly, putting pressure on the dorsal vein of the penis. The idea is that the cock ring will keep the blood that has engorged the penis from flowing out. The man will therefore retain his erection longer and, theoretically, be able to prolong his sexual activity. Some men also wear cock rings when they want their genitals to look larger under their pants. Proper fit is important so that the penis and testicles do not get bruised. Caution is needed not to wear the rings too tightly or for an extended period of time, since they act as a tourniquet limiting blood flow and can cause severe damage to the genitals.

Erotic Creams, Lotions and Oils. These come in various scents and flavors and are primarily designed to make caressing and massage more sensuous, though some are used as lubricants for intercourse. The sensations and scents of creams, lotions and oils on the skin can be arousing for some people. The flavor of the cream or oil is often important for couples who want to have oral sex or like to kiss their partner's body all over.

French Ticklers. French ticklers are devices that fit over the penis and are designed to tickle and increase sensation in the vagina during intercourse. These devices are pre-shaped (unlike condoms, which come rolled up) and their surfaces are equipped with ridges and small probes. French ticklers can be reused after thorough washing. It is important to note that while they fit over the penis in a fashion similar to condoms, they are NOT birth control devices

Leather Garments and Accessories. Leather has a distinctly erotic appeal for some people. It is a common element in sadomasochistic (S&M) fantasies used to express dominance . Some people get excited if threatened by someone who is clothed in leather or who is using leather implements. The dominant person (sadist) in these scenarios also usually derives pleasure from the wearing or use of leather. Leather is also used in bondage and discipline (B&D) in the form of harnesses or straps.

Masturbators. These are devices with soft, usually latex sleeves, often designed to resemble the female vagina, into which a man can place his erect penis. If this sexual aid is an electrically or battery powered model, it can be controlled by the user to operate at varying desired speeds to create a rhythmic motion, stimulating the man to reach orgasm and ejaculate.

Penis Extenders. A penis extender is a hollow penis-shaped device that is placed over the end of the penis to make it seem larger. Usually it is held in place by straps or a harness that goes around the waist.

The use of sex aids and sex toys is not readily accepted by all. For the most part sex toys are designed solely to increase pleasure. Because our society is in conflict over the rightness of sexual pleasure, it is not surprising that sex toys are subject to numerous myths and controversies. Some of the more common misconceptions are: that the use of sexual aids is a sign of being a pervert; that using sexual devices in a relationship is a sign that the relationship is not going well; people who use sexual aids become addicted to them; and homosexuals use sex aids more that heterosexuals do. None of these, of course, is true.

Nonetheless, many people feel ambivalent about using sex aids. They may feel that using mechanical devices during intimate moments is unnatural, depersonalizing or replacing their partner. While these concerns may have merit, it is generally not simply the use of sex aids that contributes to ill feelings, but how they are used and what their use means to an individual or to a couple. If the use of sexual aids objectifies or depersonalizes sexual experiences, there may be a problem in the relationship that requires attention. If people are using sexual devices as a crutch because they feel inadequate or inferior, then their negative feelings may need to be explored. Under circumstances like these, the use of sexual devices can be unhealthy substitutes for interpersonal relationships.

Some couples find that a healthy relationship can comfortably accommodate the addition of sex toys. Others may find that after some experimentation they prefer to do without them. Still others may feel that their sexual value is threatened by the use of sex aids. An insecure individual may wonder if his or her partner is using a sex aid because of dissatisfaction with him or her.

These issues and any others that may be raised as a result of introducing sexual aids may be seen as an opportunity for individuals and couples to explore their feelings and discover the problems in their relationships. It is important to consider, however, that using sex aids is normal and not using sex aids is normal. It is simply a matter of individual preference.

Although the majority of sex aids and toys are sold to people who use them just to enhance their pleasure, some can be used in the treatment of sexual problems. Videos, audiotapes and written material can be helpful in assisting an individual or a couple to overcome anxiety or lack of information. Also, sexual devices can be particularly helpful for some disabled people whose disability inhibits their sexual expression. In order to improve communication and intimacy, marital and sex therapists suggest that couples who have concerns or fears about the use of sex aids or toys should be encouraged to talk openly with their partner about their feelings.

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2007-09-14T08:16:00.000-07:00

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Clitoris technique 101

2007-09-10T08:06:00.000-07:00

Rolling, rolling, rolling – ok, for this technique you need to place your thumb and forefinger around the clitoris and gently roll it in between your fingers. You can start off with a slow gentle roll and then gradually pick up the pace and the pressure according to what feels good to you.

Circular rub – I generally find that if I am in a hurry this technique works wonders. Just take your first two fingers from either hand and place them over top of you clitoris. Then begin moving them in a circular motion over top of the clitoris. You can vary the speed and pressure easily with this technique. I find that if I use this one I can reach orgasm in under a minute. If you want to change the feel slightly just add your favorite lube and everything becomes very slippery.

Tapping – This technique is a little different and it’s not for everyone, as with anything some things will work for some people and not for others. For this one I use my left hand to pull the pussy lips back out of the way so that the clitoris is very exposed. Then with my index finger on my right hand I lightly begin tapping the fingertip gently on the clitoris. It results in a very delicious sensation that builds to a point where you just can’t hold it back anymore.

Combination – There is nothing that gets me wetter faster than using a combination of both hands. Have your fingers from one hand playing with your clitoris, stimulating it however you wish. Take the other hand and place two or three fingers inside your vagina and begin thrusting. Basically you’re simulating intercourse with this action and it works rather nicely in tandem with the clitoral stimulation and can bring you to a rocking orgasm!
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First Time Anal Sex

2007-09-10T07:49:00.002-07:00

These are the Three Words of successful first-time anal sex: LUBRICANT, LUBRICANT, LUBRICANT! And when following safe sex guidelines and using a condom, using a good lubricant becomes doubly important. Condoms are much less slick than the supersmooth skin of your cock. Unless you want her nursing a chafed asshole for the next three days, grimacing at the thought of further anal friction, smear the entire surface of your latex-sheathed prick with about a teaspoonful of astroglide. Then, after you're in her, freshen the coating of lube with a squirt every minute or two. It will be a bit messy, but she will love you for it.

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Caresses - how to arouse with these 36 special ones

2007-09-07T07:20:00.001-07:00

Caresses - how to arouse with these 36 special ones

1) Pencil trace. It's thrilling with the finger. It's performed with the forefinger or with the middle finger, which is also called the love finger, because it's the most skilful in this type of caresses. With a pencil's precision and the lightness of a feather, the middle finger re-shapes the body.

2) Tickling. The stimulations are centered mainly on the erogenous zones, especially the elbow's inner part and the thigh's inner part.

3) Dots with the fingers. The technique is similar to the pencil trace caress, but in this case the fingers move up and down rhythmically, intermittently.

4) Dots with the kisses. The lips make the same moves as above.

5) Sparrow's walk. Thrilling the skin using the fingers as a brush and lifting them rhythmically.

6) Japanese walk. Similar with the pencil's trace caress, but the fingers have to increase their pressure.

7) Pinch. Use the thumb together with the forefinger and the middle finger to make a fold in the epidermis. Contrary to what one could think, this type of caress, if correctly performed and with gentleness, can lead to thrills of pleasure.

8) Pinch with the thumb. You use the thumb and the other four fingers to obtain a larger skin fold. However, this type of stimulation must be neither intense nor painful.

9) Pinch with torsion. The fingers gently and painless twist the skin fold obtained with a pinch.

10) Feather. You thrill very gently and discontinuously, with the tips of the fingers (which have to be very relaxed).

11) Polishing. The fingers, in a horizontal position, polish the skin surface with a soft move from top to bottom.

12) Crosswise and circular polishing. The same as above, but crosswise and in circular moves.

13) Back of the fingers. Caresses with the upper (or back) side of the fingers.

14) Rails. Two fingers, caress continuously or alternately the skin surface following two imaginary parallel lines.

15) Horseshoe. It's a very pleasant thrill of the round areas, performed with two fingers in the form of a horseshoe.

16) Sliding ring. You mark the limits of a round skin area forming a ring with the fingers, then you start to slide the hand.

17) Squeezing ring. The same as above, but with more pressure, turning the skin slightly red.

18) Jingling. It's performed as if it were played on a keyboard.

19) Slightly hammering. It's performed on the arms and hips.

20) Slapping. It' s performed on the thighs and chest; this expression of affection is not shared by all, however. The orientals instead were using it, extending it to all the body.

21) Palming. The palm of the hand "locks" or cover a shoulder, a hip, a breast, a knee, and so on.

22) Remolding. The hand remolds the lover's body.

23) Massage. It can be performed according to the inspiration in that moment.

24) Nail's touch. The contact is made with the nail's tip. It's a light thrill which however leaves a slight mark. The nail acts as a finger, reshaping the anatomy or drawing on the body imaginary lines, but with a more accurate result.

25) Intermittent touch. The same as above, but with an intermittent nail pressure.

26) Comb. It's a light thrill with four fingers.

27) Rooster's walk. The same as the sparrow's walk, but the fingers spread from time to time.

28) Scratch. The nails move on the partner's skin as if they were a rake. The pressure must be light, but sufficient for leaving a mark.

29) Scraping. It's a deeper scratch that turns the skin slightly red. However, this caress must be used as a proof of a profound love, without violence.

30) Nails. It's a motionless nail pressure. When strong, it leaves a mark on the skin. Certain women abandon themselves to this instinctively in the moments of maximum pleasure.

31) Back of the hand and fingers. You can also caress with the back of the hand and fingers. You can thus cause a light friction with the nails' tips. There is nothing more intimate for two people who love each other than the marks of nails and bites.

32) Peacock's pad. Gently apply the thumb's nail on one breast, and the nails of the other four fingers on the other breast.

33) Spider's web. The fingers are placed alternately as the spider's pads. This caress is also called the tips' touch because it recalls the steps on tiptoe of a dance lesson.

34) Tiger's scraping. Trace with the nails a large circular move on the partner's chest.

35) Nail scraping. Deeply scraping the breasts, back, chest and belly with the nails of the main three fingers.

36) Brush. You thrill the lover's skin with four fingers. Gently, almost gliding. Use the fingers as if they were a soft brush.

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Guide To Turning her on!

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* CERVIX CLOCK
"A woman's cervix can usually be found in the upper rear part of her vagina. The cervix feels like a little dome of tissue, and may also have a small cleft in the middle, like your chin. Carefully stimulate the area surrounding the cervix. Some women may enjoy this and want you to do it more often; others won't."
* FINGERS ON THE HOOD
"Given how the clitoral area is often more sensitive than any single part of the penis, you don't want the rough skin of your fingers rubbing across it. Gently push and pull on the clitoral hood and labia when first touching a woman's genitals. Using the lips as leverage can provide pleasing stimulation without painful friction."
* FROM THE OUTSIDE
"Lay your free hand over the lower part of your partner's abdomen. Experiment by applying different kinds of pressure with the top hand while fingers from your other hand are inside her vagina."
* IMITATIONS
"An excellent way to learn more about pleasing your partner is to rest your fingers over hers while she is masturbating herself. Then do the reverse, with her fingers acting as guides for your own."
* OFF THE EDGE
"Another form of genital massage can be done by holding a lubricated lip between your thumb and forefinger. While squeezing just a little, pull your fingers straight away from the woman's body. Your fingers will end up in the air an inch or two above her body, as though you had pulled them off the edge of a tabletop or sheet of paper. If she likes this, repeat it many times."
* OVARIES
"Ask your partner to help you locate her ovaries. They can usually be felt in the deepest part of the vagina and to the far left or right. Some women will like you to massage this area, others will find it painful. Sensitivity will also vary with her menstrual status."
* PROPER INVITE
"Begin with a light, gentle caress that barely touches the inner thighs and pubic hair. Don't go much further until your partner's pelvis begins to arch upwards. Tease and caress until the lips of her vulva invite your fingers inside."
* TRACING
"After applying lubrication, it might be nice to begin with one of the large outer lips. Place the lucky lip between your thumb and forefinger, clasping it at the base where it attaches to the main part of your partner's body. Then run your fingers (or fingertip) from the lower to upper part of the lip, as though you were tracing one side of a parenthesis. Repeat this as long as your partner's feedback is positive. You can also make an upside down horseshoe pattern with a fingertip by starting at the lower inside part of one lip and finishing at the lower inside part of the other. It could be fun to do this with both inner and outer lips."

How to Seduce a Woman

2007-09-04T17:11:00.000-07:00

The biggest mistake most men make is assuming women think like them. You see women have a Big Project that looms over everything they do; they can bear children.

Pick the right man, and they'll have healthy, happy, successful, loving children. Pick the wrong one, and they might not even get to have any at all. There's not a woman alive that doesn't occasionally look wistfully at little children, and wonders what might be, or what might have have been.

So while it's perfectly acceptable for a man to be Jack The Lad, with a girl in every port, any woman who behaves that way is seen to be a tart. Not only could she get pregnant, but as a woman she is more susceptible to sexually transmitted disease, and will suffer more if she gets one.

So, you'll have to excuse women if they seem unreasonable; they're playing for far higher stakes.

To find and keep the love of your life, you have to have a chat with yourself: what kind of woman do you truly like?

Now, I know any half-naked hussy can get the ol' motor revving. But, if you examine your responses objectively, you'll find that a type emerges: slim or rounded, dark or blond, extroverted or introverted.

There's a film star that you can't help but gawp at when she's on the screen. There's a type of girl that causes your head to swivel when you're walking down the street. That's the type you should go for; the one that excites an automatic, positive response.

You'll find it easier to talk to this type of girl. If you have found your 'true love' she'll feel the same way about you. You have genes that'll help her make a better baby; she does the same for you.

So how to seduce such a woman? Well, it's not hard. When you first make eye contact, smile. If she smiles back, you're in. Then go up, and say hello. After that, take your cue from her. She likes you, so you don't have to jabber. You can say the most banal things; it's your appearance, and the sound of your voice, that're doing most of the work. If you're nervous, just tell yourself: "plenty more fish in the sea(!)".

You'll have a lot more confidence if you've got some money in the bank, an apartment and a car of your own; these should be a priority. You should also dress well. Dressing well means your appearance exudes power: you're in control of your destiny. Women like to be taken care of; project that you can do that, and you're half-way home. Your personal circumstances also affect how you behave: a man who is well-off will project that unconsciously, and be more successful with women.

2007-09-03T11:51:00.001-07:00

7 Strange And Unusual Uses For Hypnosis

Hypnosis has many faces, which is part of its fascination as a career. It is conceivable that a single hypnotist could cover all of its facets. Some hypnotists actually combine hypnotherapy with a career on the stage but one of the most incredible things about hypnosis is all its unusual uses.

1. Hypnosis can effectively enhance memory recall, allowing subjects to experience past events very vividly, even to the point of believing that they are consciously present at these events. How far can this go? And as you may have heard, some people think hypnosis can recover memories from a past lifetime.

2. Forensic hypnosis has been used often in enhancing the memory of participants in criminal court cases, primarily with victims or witnesses to enhance the memory of the event. It was used in the cases of Ted Bundy, Sam Shepherd and Albert DeSalvo, the Boston Strangler. In the case of DeSalvo, it was used with the defendant himself.

3. Hypnosis can induce a partial or almost complete state of anaesthesia, making subjects or patients oblivious to the surgeon’s knife, a state presumably similar to that ofan Indian fakir, who can stick needles into his arm or lie on a bed of nails without experiencing pain.

4. Another, scientifically verifiable aspect of hypnosis is the ability to create positive hallucinations. When I was in elementary school, I read a book on hypnosis that claimed that the hypnotist had created, for himself, a little pink elephant that followed him around all the time. The trouble was that he couldn’t get rid of it right away. He had forgotten to suggest the possibility for removal of that little pink phantom. That really impressed me as to the potential of hypnosis.

5. Hypnosis can be used to create relaxation during contractions in childbirth. It also helps to create a positive, trusting attitude toward the labor and birthing processes. Stress hormones are eliminated that are fundamentally responsible for the pain in childbirth. Instead, wonderful endorphins that are your body’s natural pain relievers (and nature’s love drug) are elevated, thus keeping the laboring mother in a state of relaxation and having a sense of well-being.

6. One extraordinary use of hypnosis is involved with overcoming specific phobias. Phobias are deeply held unconscious fears which affect a person’s whole life and psychological well-being.

7. Perhaps one of the most important aspects of hypnosis is its ability to suggest and influence courses of action to people both inside of and outside the hypnotic trance. A suggestion given within a state of hypnosis that will have effect outside is called a post-hypnotic suggestion. These types of suggestions can have a profound and meaningful effect when trying to influence discordant habitual behaviour like smoking or gambling.

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An affirmation is a positive assertion, a solemn declaration, a way to change your way of thinking. You can use affirmations to improve performance and results in all areas of your life. The "positive action" self-talk of specific affirmations is beneficial to achieving desired outcomes.

Affirmations can implant your sub-conscious mind with a framework for achieving success. They should be read with emotion, preferably out loud, and with great desire and meaning. The secret to affirmations is to read them as though you are already in possession of that which you are seeking.

Affirmations should be read every day without fail, preferably as soon as possible on rising in the morning and always just prior to retiring in the evening. During the day try to read your affirmations as often as you can.

Do not be concerned if the results you are seeking do not come immediately. Be persistent. Use your affirmations for 30 days without missing a single day. This will implant the positive messages into your normal way of thinking. Continuing the recital of your affirmations beyond 30 days will increase their strength, which will manifest itself in the results that you will receive.

Understand that different people have different levels of self-belief and self-worth. Results, therefore, will be different from one person to the next.

For greater results you can write each affirmation into an exercise book every day. You can also add your name to each affirmation to personalize it for you. Commence each affirmation by saying: "My name is..." This will add further strength to the affirmation.

The following is an example of an affirmation for happiness. (Note the positive and action based way it is written)

HAPPINESS AFFIRMATION

"A feeling of inner happiness is coursing through me. I am choosing to be happy every day no matter what circumstances I find myself in. I awaken each day with a smile on my face because I know I will be at my best when I am happy. Other people see my happiness as a sign of great strength. I smile and greet people with genuine enthusiasm. My own happiness leaves everyone I meet in a happier state. Being happy is a wonderful feeling. A feeling of inner happiness is coursing through me."